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Wednesday, December 10, 2008

ED, Age and Men's Performance Confidence

We all learn the hard way that an excessive lifestyle will always lead to a physiological consequence of sorts. Usually, we expect it to be something serious, but most men will never really anticipate that even their precious manhood will be affected by the many "consequences" of aging and the backlash of an excessive way of living.

Erectile dysfunction can never really be a laughing matter, at least not to men who have felt the pain of being unable to perform. In fact, almost 30 million men all over the world suffer from ED. That's thirty million unsatisfied women and thirty million missed chances to have kids the natural way.

ED can occur at any age range, and the intensity varies from mild to severe. A guy presenting a slight ED may show weak erections, which is inadequate for penetration. Severe erectile dysfunction means not being able to achieve an erection until effective treatment is administered.

Every man would love to sleep with his partner with the sexual confidence of a virile sex god, but he may be hesitant to approach doctors for prescription synthetic ED drugs. Fortunately, there are herbal drugs like golden root complex available online, which help men treat their ED without going through the embarrassment of approaching a doctor or revealing to other people that they have ED.

Monday, August 11, 2008

On Oysters and other Aphrodisiacs

Oysters! The proverbial metaphor for the female organ actually acts as an aphrodisiac? I couldn't believe it either. But it seems that a lot of people consume this seafood for the exact objective of making their sex lives better.
Are they really aphrodisiacs or just hype?

The scientific basis for such claims could be the research findings stating that mussels, clams, and oysters contain rare amino acids: D-aspartic acid or D-asp and N-methyl-D-aspartate or NMDA. These stimulate production of testosterone in males, the hormone that is responsible for libido and more erections in guys. Younger guys have (should, anyway) more of this hormone than older guys, and if this claim is true, then maybe there is a validity to it.

Elevated levels of testosterone could increase sexual activity and better quality erections. And, with better quality, I mean the type that penetrates, not the soft, weak-willed ones I used to have. Do these other natural products trump sildenafil citrate, or the ones created from Siberian ginseng (herbal V)? Whether they do or don't does not really matter as long as they all work!

It's not surprising that men like us always find ways to satisfy our lovers. Girls are already flaky at their best, and it takes just so little to turn them off... not when there are so many guys who can love them up better.

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Friday, July 25, 2008

Ask and You Shall be Answered: Erection Questions on Ask Websites

When I started exploring my erection problem, I found out the multitude of sites over the web where someone can simply ask questions and other people will answer. I didn't even have to tell them who I am, they just accept the question and don't mind my screen name.

Gingerly I started reading some of the questions and corresponding answers. Whoa boy, I was blown away by the willingness of these people to answer any question that I can think of. I started slow, asked about mundane things, until I mustered some courage to ask about my erection problems.

I click on profiles and find that the people answering are in my age range! It makes me wonder if I should take their advice about my erection problems seriously. But what do I know, right? Anyway, I balked at the last minute and went for the 'friend of a friend' technique.

My question: "A friend of mine has been having erection problems and he's depressed, he thinks that his girl left him because of it. Can anyone help him?"

I thought that was pretty smart, but the answers people weren't fooled one bit.

Answer 1: "You should just get out there and tell her you still love her, erection or no erection"
Answer 2: "Stop masturbating too much, it's making you crazy and your tool stupid"
Answer 3: "Did your girl leave because you can't get stiff or is her leaving making you flaccid? It's like the chicken-egg dilemma, man. Now, I need help."
Answer 4: "Tell her you've seen the light and won't fantasize about her best friend again"

While that was entertaining. I should have known that not being upfront about my question would lead to jokesters flooding me with senseless answers. However, one of the more sensible ones told me something useful, she said "get some viagra from your dad's secret stash". And, that's what I did.

ED in Movies: What Women Want

Do you remember the Mel Gibson movie wherein he can hear what women think and they don't even know it? No?
Here's the video. Hope it refreshes your memory.



In the movie "What women want", Mel Gibson was Nick Marshall, a guy in a situation wherein he can tell exactly what women want to hear or need most at the moment. In the movie, he was a casanova and every woman wanted to sleep with him. There was one sex scene where he finally dated a girl who had a long time crush on him, but disaster happened. He had erection problems in the middle of sex, maybe because he felt uncomfortable listening to what the girl was saying while they were doing it.

The girl uttered a thought that made him go to the bathroom to "talk" to his tool.
The girl said "God, l hope he's better With the light on. He's so all over the place.
Just do it so l can start faking it!"
Of course, in the movie, he can hear her say that in her mind, and so he and his tool had a heart to heart, or is that man to man talk. He told the little guy...
"All right! NoW, let's pull this together, buddy. I mean, this is What We do!!!"
Apparently it worked, and he proceeded to give the girl the best sex of her life. Leading her to say (think) "Ladies and gentlemen, Nick Marshall is a sex god!"

If talking to your tool was all it took to have him function in a way that you wanted, things would be much simpler. You can try though, and he might just follow your instructions. After all, if that fails, there's always viagra.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Sexual Dysfunction in Movies: Forrest Gump

This classic movie is long and funny, particularly the parts when Forrest's antics lead to fruitful developments in society. While I could go on and on about this movie that is my favorite, I will discuss the scene when Forrest showed the whole world how premature ejaculation happens.

In the scene, Jenny took Forrest to her room after being soaked to the skin in a downpour. She undresses and Forrest looked so uneasy seeing her undressed. She tried to initiate sex by taking his hands and placing them on her breasts. What happened next probably shocked some people who knew about it, and probably seemed weird to people who have never experienced rapid and premature orgasm. Tom Hanks made the scene so believable, and as far as I'm concerned he deserved the Oscar, particularly for that scene.

This from wikipedia:

rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax or early ejaculation, is the most common sexual problem in men, affecting 25-40% of men. It is characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation. Other sources state that a guy has this sexual dysfunction if he experiences orgasm before his sex partner does in more than fifty percent of their sexual encounters.

In the context of the movie, inexperience was once again the subliminally cited reason for the sexual dysfunction. But considering the above statement, it is suggested that not all men who experience this problem are new to the sex act. Quite the opposite actually, as "50% of the time" indicates that a man has enough experience with sex to know what to do.



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Sexual Dysfunction in Movies: American Pie

Whenever I'd think about my happy go lucky lifestyle before contracting ED, my struggle, and eventual treatment, some movie personalities come to mind, including Forrest Gump (played by the award winning actor, Tom Hanks), and Jim, played by Jason Biggs in American Pie. For this post, I am going to talk about the latter.

I remember watching that movie when it came out and throughout the years on DVD. Two scenes always cracked me up, the time when Jim got into a little dance for his girl Nadia (Shannon Elizabeth); and the time when premature ejaculation was broadcast across the Internet. Very amusing indeed.

While I laughed (and still laughing) like the rest of those who watched the movie, the seriousness of premature ejaculation in men is something that we could never face, despite that girls and wives all over the globe get annoyed when that happens. It suggests the inability to control one's sexual urges, and failure to give the woman the pleasure she craves. More than annoyance, some women feel that their men have a problem with having sex with them when he shows signs of premature ejaculation. However, I think we can all be in agreement that PE is the man's problem and should be dealt with accordingly.

Premature ejaculation happens to the best of men. Most of us know how embarrassing it is to ejaculate way before the time that our girlfriends do. In general, men have to lead the woman to orgasm, doing all he can to give her a great time. Ejaculating prematurely means something is faulty in the mechanism, and doesn't always suggest inexperience.



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Thursday, July 3, 2008

Love Potions and My Almost-Erection

My Asian upbringing never made me forget how herbs can be used to treat sickness. Even back in the US, my mom would use mashed leaves from some grass to dress my flesh wounds. My dad used to drink tea that my mom prepared and it was bitter tasting (I sipped while he wasn't looking).

I tried looking for sex problem help in the yellow pages and the first ones I saw were numbers of psychics. Instinct told me I probably would get scammed if i went to some witchcraft store, but I had to risk it. The only other alternative was letting a doctor stick a needle or a thermometer up my ass... or something similar.

I initially tried to explain my problem, but communication got mangled and she thought I needed help getting a girl to fall in love with me. She muttered a few things that I didn't catch and gave me a small bottle with fluid inside. She told me to let my lady friend drink it and she will instantly love me again. That wasn't what i went there for, but I needed for that to happen too, so I didn't argue.

Later that week Sue and I met up. She brought beer but I didn't want to drink. I dared her to drink the fluid inside the vial and she told me it was sweet-tasting. I confessed that it's a love potion and she's supposed to love me all over again after she drank it. She looked at me straight and told me it didn't work, and that she loved me the same way she did before anyway. We kissed and petted for a few minutes, and for a second I thought my erection was back!

That weak erection lasted for a few minutes, then it went back to being flaccido domingo. ironically, Sue verbalized my excuse for me "You're tired. Go rest."




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Mirror Mirror on the Wall.... Am I Gay?

This post is by no means a bashing of the third sex. In fact, I have a lot of gay friends and love and respect them as my brothers. My topic today is about how I almost lost it when I could not find anyone to talk to about my 'hardship'.

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I have been reviewing my phone book of late, trying to guess which homie won't laugh too much when I tell him about how I couldn't get my tool up long enough to have normal sex.
I was still friends with my ex and she still visited a lot, but we were platonic, which was not really my choice. That week, I found that the worst part of having erection problems is: the more you can't do it, the more difficult it is to do it EVER.

That statement sounded so final, and even now, when I think of that exact time when I doubted everything about me that I knew then. Was I changing orientation? Was I losing it? Did I play bball too much that my real balls somehow dropped?

My internet visits weren't helpful, as all I read about were statistics of how many men under 25 showed symptoms of erectile dysfunction and how these could be symptoms of diseases with names I could not even pronounce. Another article said that the symptoms could be temporary, which gave me hope. And yet, another issue of a man's magazine told me that the ability to get a stiffy might not come back if the nerves are damaged due to physical stress. Then, I found one site that said the most scary thing... "you need to talk to a professional ... psychologist."

I never would have thought that an ED problem could be so complicated.




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Friday, June 27, 2008

Santa Bring My Mojo Back To Me~

It was Christmas time when my girlfriend Suzie (not her real name) finally told me how she needed time off from the relationship, how she couldn't handle any more competition with my time, and that maybe someone like me who spends most of his time with friends won't miss someone like her who's always in the background anyway. She told me these while we were walking around town doing Christmas shopping. She listed my faults as if she was reading off a list. I was not as devastated as I thought I would be. I was almost expecting it.

It's been a while since we got intimate, and although I tried to make it up to her by being extra considerate (letting her choose the movie and where to eat, not sulking while she spends hours in a shoe store etc.), I guess it all boiled down to my 'little problem.' She would never admit it, though. She wasn't that shallow, she said.

Splitting up prior to the big Christmas house party that a common friend is throwing could be a genius social move on her part. We still went together, for old time's sake, but I didn't expect to keep her the whole night. Once word got out that we weren't together anymore, guys were taking turns talking to her as I looked on and nodded in response to the obligatory "hey man, what up" nods.

The homies of course rushed to comfort me with introductions to other girls but I told 'em I wasn't really in the mood. One of the newer members asked me later on about the break up, and I told him it's not bothering me at all. He noticed though that I was sipping unspiked OJ and offered his flask. I declined. Did you know that erection disorders are related with too much alcohol intake? A part of me blamed my beer-filled nights for this unexpected affliction , while a part of me was just numb at that moment. The nosy brother still won't leave me alone, so I just told him "dude, I think I lost my mojo for good."

That was a mistake, I thought, as he ran back to the others to report what he learned. Soon, they were all singing a bad rendition of Elvis' hit, Santa Bring My Baby Back To Me. Here's the song:





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Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Mr. Yes and Mr. No: In Denial about My ED


I am not a dense guy when it comes to most things not concerning me. I tend to foresee the punch lines of jokes and sometimes even read between the lines in conversations I am not a part of. However, the first times I ‘failed’ to perform in a sexual encounter, I was totally dense. I won’t even face the possibility, or the notion of the possibility, that it could be a problem. Here’s a proof of how conflicted I was about it. You all know the proverbial angel-devil-on-the-shoulders illustration of how people decide? This describes a person in denial about something; a part of him rebuts a decision before it’s even made.

The ‘conversation’:

Mr Yes: Man, this could be serious, I’d better get help fast or my social life is gone.
Mr. No: I’m just tired, been playing ball all day. And, look at her, she’s not even pretty. She didn’t turn me on at all, but the sex is free so I took it. Conclusion: her fault.

Mr. Yes: Maybe I can skip ball practice today and go for a consultation. Should take about five minutes, and the guys won’t even notice.
Mr. No: Hell, no! They’d know for sure that something’s wrong if I miss practice. Someone might even offer to accompany me to ‘the dry cleaners’.

Mr. Yes: What the F* do I do about this??
Mr. No: I’d better stop worrying about it. It’s making me crazy!

In the end, I spent two hours thinking about it and doing nothing. Indecision is a waste of time, but it’s a necessary step towards making a life-changing decision.

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Thursday, June 19, 2008

Thoughts on Sexual Performance Dysfuction

Let me describe the stages I went through before I decided to seek treatment for my ED problem. The first thing I did when I noticed how I could not perform was to tell my friends, who took everything in jest. I don't really blame them. If another person told me that, and I did not take time to think that he could be serious, I'd be laughing too.

It took a few months of serious anxiety over sex per se before I finally sat down in front of my personal computer and typed in Erectile Dysfunction on the search bar. I did it in secret, while my girlfriend then was asleep on my bed, tired after a night of making love using her vibrator. I helped, of course, and it was still exciting seeing her enjoying everything I was doing to her. We call it extended foreplay, which was fine. However, my excuses for not being able to perform were running dry and I had to do some explaining before she assumes (again) that I have been seeing other women.

I had no history of accidents or concussion, which the bros at the frat house tell me are the factors that directly affect my schwing. It's not that I don't want sex, I do. If I have to be brutally honest about it, I want it so bad that I'd be willing to do it with the cross eyed librarian who touched my hand whenever I returned a book during senior year. But the reality is, it's difficult to concentrate on pleasure when you have a sinking feeling that your tool will fail you any time.

And so started my research on how to help myself. I'll tell you all about it next week so stay tuned.


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Monday, June 16, 2008

Best Impotence Jokes



Men who have impotence issues are extra sensitive about jokes shot their way, particularly those still in denial, and those who are still in the closet about their disorder. I, however, have gone past that stage and have now accepted that impotence can be funny. Seriously funny. These are jokes I heard from people or experienced myself. You decide which is which. :D

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A guy met with his exgirlfriend in a seafood restaurant for some friendly chat. They order wine and mixed seafoods. The guy asks "Do you still think of the guy you dated after me?" To which the girl answered, "Yeah, I still remember him sometimes" while fondling the stem of her wine glass.
The guy asked again, "How about me, do you still think of me sometimes?"
The girl answered, "Of course," as she popped a sea cucumber in her mouth.

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Husband and wife make love during their 12th anniversary. Since they were married, the man never had sex with his wife with the lights on, so the woman wanted to know if he can get over that. She hid a flashlight under the pillows and turned it on while they were making love.
She was shocked to find out that her husband was making love to her using a rubber vibrator. She glanced from his face to his flaccid penis and exclaimed "Why, honey, you've been fooling me for years!"

The man looked at her pointedly and said, "I'll explain my disorder, if you'll explain the kids."

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In the middle of sex, the woman sat up livid with anger.
"Your penis doesn't like me." She said and proceeded to put on her clothes.
Panicked, the man tried to reason with her, "You're just so beautiful that it faints every time you kiss it."

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Heh.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

ED Alert: Impotence Signs

Painful knowledge is better than being blissfully unaware of the causes of a problem, as impotence is to some men. The steps to recovery include seeking definitions and causes, and ultimately, treatment. But before one can begin with these drawn out process, one must first ADMIT to himself that he has a problem, and here are some signs that describe the symptoms of erectile dysfunction. Granted, one unsuccessful sex session doesn't necessarily mean a man has erectile dysfunction disorder, as a lot of factors may affect sexual performance. However, if the signs can no longer be ignored, i.e. when they occur all the time, a man must be alert to the changes in his body. It takes the strongest men to question his ability to pleasure a woman. While the denial phase is inevitable, the symptoms serve as wake up call to those secretly dealing with impotence.

Some signs to watch out for include:
  • Consistent difficulty in achieving an erection - Giving up. A man's sexual partner has done everything in his or her power to stimulate the penis and get it ready for sexual intercourse, but to no avail.

  • Erections aren't fully manifested, or aren't sustained enough to allow vaginal penetration - Some men may be able to penetrate the vagina with a barely stiff penis, but one knows how it has performed in the past, and it wasn't like that. Only the man himself knows the history of his sexual performance and can tell if there is something wrong with how he performs.

  • Erection firmness is only for a short while, and

  • Losing erection in the middle of sexual intercourse
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Monday, June 9, 2008

Talking About ED

This blog is my attempt at expressing my struggle with erection problems, how I dealt with it emotionally and how I found ways to help myself. In the process of dealing with this problem, I discovered myself, my strengths, how important certain things are to me, and how much more I can grow as a person. In the center of my daily ramblings is my goal to inform people, particularly men like me who keep their erectile dysfunction a secret, about herbal viagra and organic alternatives to the blue pill.

Being a fan of organic supplements, I trust natural remedies and have been studying how these can help our world in general today and in the future. Medicines are man's way of coping as the world evolves and the thinking and living processes become more complicated. A part of the evolution of man's thinking, if you will. Besides the drive to prosper, man thinks of ways to improve himself, and improvise if needed, just to survive. Nature, with her bountiful gifts, is here to provide.

Erectile dysfunction used to be something funny to me, as it usually is among guys who don't know the pain of not being able to pleasure a woman in bed. Resources cite psychological, physiological and external factors to ED, and while doctors told me there's nothing wrong with me physiologically, I still wonder. That's just me trying to convince myself that I'm not too stressed, or too depressed to perform in bed.

The worst thing about ED is whenever it happens, you lose a little bit more morale, so that the chances of overcoming it diminishes. Sit back, stay awhile and let me tell you how I improved myself and my lifestyle, through my determination to be better at everything.